The Gift of
Hope
Hope—A place, perhaps a state of being that lives in the future?:
One of the definitions I found reads…To look forward to with confidence or expectation.
Look down at your hands…..
If they are clenched….Unclench them…..
Slowly Stretch them out before you…..
We will climb, slow as it may be and grab a hold of Hope.
Hope is something we look to; it seems it lives in the future. We are not quite there but are striving to
arrive. Hope is like a dream that is in
the distance; seems attainable but I haven’t reached my destination.
The Hope I share with you today is found in the Lord.
But God desires abundant life for us.
John 10:10
It’s a future that includes memories of the past
with a tangible grasp of the future.
What is does indicate is we have chosen, not to be a prisoner of the horrific
tragedy that has affected us and forever linked us together. It signifies that the anguish, the real pain
we feel will not keep our joy suppressed; a victim curled up in a corner of despair and unfruitfulness.
Co-worker, and beloved daughter, it encourages us to proactively remember
Jasmine Rodriguez and continue to make her life count!
Through their hurt and brokenness they allow a breath of hope to lift them
beyond the throbbing pain and live again.
You see, Hope is not just an action or a feeling, though in saying so we are
correct.
But for me Hope is the person of Jesus Christ that has given me life; life
abundantly and the confidence to share it with you today.
It once thrived and the beautiful smelling aroma of life was noticeable from
afar.
This seed brought joy to others.
How incredible that in God’s design the seed though it seems dead still has the
ability to produce life.
Jasmine, a beautiful flower, once a life full of dreams and desires;
a life that affected us all and left an imprint in our hearts forever; this
life that was snatched from us can become a seed for us to plant, a seed of
hope for us to water and wait to see its fruit.
We plant a seed.
It’s a seed of hope for the future,
it’s a seed for the sake of the prisoner who has yet to escape.
It’s a seed of Hope for us who live.
A seed that together will bridge the beautiful life of
Jasmine Rodriguez to those that have yet to be free.
We chose to be free, no longer a prisoner ourselves of hopelessness. Though
sorrow has been a companion, we now swap partners like in a beautiful dance and
choose Hope to guide our future days to come.
"And that my soul knows very well
You lift me up, I'm cleansed and free
And that my soul knows very well
When mountains fall, I'll stand
By the power of Your hand
And in Your heart of heart I'll dwell
And that my soul knows very well
Joy and strength each day I find
And that my soul knows very well
Forgiveness, hope, I know is mine
And that my soul knows very well"
(Song lyrics by Darlene Zschech)
Today I want
to begin with a small exercise….
Now open
your hands….
Through pain
and grief, sorrow and hurt…. we announce today that we will indeed reach out to
live again…
Hope
promises a better tomorrow.
My name is
Elizabeth Rodrigues and I am Jasmine’s Aunt.
I have found
that Hope has never disappointed me.
For some
Hope can be a feeling, and in saying that we are correct.
My hope is
in Jesus Christ who has saved my soul, given me purpose and joy in this life.
Today I want
you to understand that I don’t come with a quick fix for the pain we share.
I’ve come to impart a glimmer of hope to get us to tomorrow.
The Word of
God says, "Sorrow may last for the night but joy comes in the morning." (Ps. 30:5b)
We have had
a lot of mornings since that horrific day that changed our lives; the day that
brought pain and a stinging ache to our hearts.
We are
tender beings.
We have emotions that can
cause us to laugh and emotions that can feel the tragic pain of loss.
I remind
myself...
It’s ok to
live…..Liz it’s ok to live and laugh again.
The enemy of
our soul desires that we would stay confused, unfocused, troubled, and perhaps
to have remnants of guilt consume us.
What could we have done differently, did we miss a warning. Could we
have avoided this?
We can stay
in this ring for a while, fighting imaginations and thoughts that at times that
are deceptive.
Death is a
real separation that can leave us empty for a time.
You see, the thief comes only to steal
and kill and destroy; But God says, I have come that they may have life, and
have it to the full.
The Lord
wants his people free. Isaiah 61:11
We can’t
have sorrow and despair walk with us as if they are our companions through this
life.
Grieving and
mourning they serve their purpose; it’s how we are designed. I know this full well as I have not only lost
my niece, but only 4 months before, my mom too was gone in a blink of an eye,
therefore now I too must embrace tomorrow with Hope.
We hope
because there is a future.
Today’s
ceremony is an indication of us moving forward.
Moving
forward does not mean we have forgotten.
Living life
now requires a new weapon, a fortified agent to carry us through our
tomorrows.
That, weapon, that negotiator
is Hope.
Hope will
not disappoint us.
Hope is the
key that opens the prison door so that we are no longer the prisoner.
Hope can and
will prod us to resist the shadow of depression and hopelessness.
Do it for yourself, for the
sake of my niece, cousin, co-worker and friend.
We often
hear of those that have experienced tragedy; how they somehow get the courage
to overcome; how somehow they can push past all the pain and impulse to do
nothing;
Friends and
family, today that is us.
The Bible is
the resource that has pointed me to the Hope I speak of today.
We are going
to take hold of our sadness and brokenness and for the sake of Jasmine, for the
sake of others who are still in need of help, we are going to plant a seed of
hope today.
A seed is
the part of the vegetation by definition that has died.
We did not
choose the death that occurred.
For the one
who has yet to escape the nightmare that they live in;
For the one whose
dream might be crushed;
For the one
who lives in a world of fear and darkness;
For the one
who’s life might be in danger;
For our own healing
process, we will choose HOPE.
There is
Hope for us and hope for the future.
Stretch out
your hands……
We have the
ability, but most importantly we must choose to let go of the pain that wants to
create scars that will immobilize us.
We live
because we must, lest we too perish in the land of hopelessness.
Father in
heaven, Lord Jesus; help us release the pain.
A seed,
though it seems dead; once planted, watered and nurtured can bring new life.
Take these
seeds as a gesture and reminder to keep our hearts fruitful and make
Jasmine’s
life memorable…making it count!
If you have
ever purchased a seed packet, you know that at times we end up getting a few
“wild flower” that we did not necessary come with the original purchase, but when
they bloom, somehow they add to the beauty and array of the landscape.
Along with
hope today, I pray that in your heart joy, peace, patience,
kindness, goodness, and of course the greatest of all Love would sprout forth.
We need a
breath of fresh air, friends
A sweet
aroma to fill our hearts again…..
God bless you!~Liz
www.lizrod.com